Ask the Coach:
As coaches, we are often in the position to hear “the good, the bad, and the ugly” trends that include those persistent challenges that keep us up at night, distract our days and undermine our ability to understand and respond. Our hope is that these conversations will serve as practical examples for enhancing your leadership choices.
Q: I’m a new manager and I’ve been struggling a bit with obtaining trust with my team. Any suggestions on helping develop a more inclusive/trusting team?
A: Establishing trust in the workforce can be a rather tricky proposition. Many managers fall into the trap of attempting to “motivate” their workforce. Thus, they attempt many motivational tools to improve the camaraderie of the team. Sometimes this can fail to get the results that we would like to achieve. Trust is usually more successful to obtain when we focus on “inspiring” our staff. Assume that they are already motivated to perform. Our job is to inspire them to higher levels. This can be obtained through their ownership via collaboration and engagement. By focusing on collaboration from all team members, we can achieve true inclusion and ensure that everyone’s voice is heard at the table. For further information on this focus, you might explore the book – Trust and Inspire: How Truly Great Leaders Unleash Greatness In Others by Stephen M.R. Covey . This is excellent work on inspiring our workforce.
Disclaimer: The information contained on this site is provided for informational purposes only and should not be construed as legal advice on any subject matter. Due to the nature of this segment, any suggestions for consideration can only be general in nature and as such no liability is taken or implied by these suggestions for consideration given here or the use or misuse of any techniques described. It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice.
Q: One of the side benefits that I have gathered from my experience with Equis is the availability of current publications demonstrating the techniques that I have learned in my courses and coaching. Do you have any current suggestions?
A: One of the books that has been highly acclaimed is the book “Multipliers.” I found this book to be very supportive of the coursework and the coaching that we have advocated for years. It clearly differentiates the difference between a more contemporary approach to leadership and the more traditional management role. The book refers to the two different choices as Multipliers vs. Diminishers. It identifies these two types with the premise of how much engagement we can obtain from our employees. Multipliers are those that encourage engagement and thus get heightened productivity from their staff. Diminishers are those that “dictate” specific “goals or orders” and thus diminish the ultimate productivity of their staff. I would highly recommend it for furthering your leadership capabilities. The exact title of the book is Multipliers: How The Best Leaders Make Everyone Greater by Liz Wiseman.
Disclaimer: The information contained on this site is provided for informational purposes only and should not be construed as legal advice on any subject matter. Due to the nature of this segment, any suggestions for consideration can only be general in nature and as such no liability is taken or implied by these suggestions for consideration given here or the use or misuse of any techniques described. It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice.
Q: I’m concerned about the potential of losing valuable staff members (especially post Covid). What do you recommend as a technique for insuring retention of my employees?
A: Employee retention is a classic challenge in all companies. And, the workforce has become increasingly mobile in their career decisions. Traditionally, companies have focused on compensation and salary. Because companies have upgraded their compensation packages, compensation and salary are relatively competitive. Thus, compensation is not the major reason for employees to exit.
Today, the main reasons that staff members begin to “shop around” regarding their career is career growth and opportunity in the company. Companies that have a robust career development strategy have realized a much more satisfied workforce whereby decreasing their attrition rate. (See our Podcast on a client’s initiative concerning career development.)
Today, the main reasons that staff members begin to “shop around” regarding their career is career growth and opportunity in the company. Companies that have a robust career development strategy have realized a much more satisfied workforce whereby decreasing their attrition rate. (See our Podcast on a client’s initiative concerning career development.)
For additional support regarding this topic, please listen to our podcast on LAUNCH: A Career Development Program For Retaining Employees
Disclaimer: The information contained on this site is provided for informational purposes only and should not be construed as legal advice on any subject matter. Due to the nature of this segment, any suggestions for consideration can only be general in nature and as such no liability is taken or implied by these suggestions for consideration given here or the use or misuse of any techniques described. It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice.
Q: I’ve had a good deal of coaching in the past and I attribute my development as a manager directly to that fact. Is there any industry research on this that might validate my thinking and allow me to “sell” this feature to my employees/peers?
A: . Thank you for recognizing a major development component in today’s workforce. Here at Equis, we have been on the forefront on coaching future-minded leaders. Even though robust development programs are important in a leader’s development, coaching is paramount in ensuring the new skills and behaviors are transferred to the workplace. That is the reason that we have designed a coaching component in each of our robust leadership development programs.
We know that traditional “leadership training” is important, but that alone does not create the transformation that the organization needs. However, we do know that coaching does give us the return that we are looking for in leadership development. The Center for Creative Leadership and the Marshall Goldsmith organization have done extensive studies regarding this fact. The new work world requires the guidance from experience coaches who are focused on the organization’s business strategy.
You can indeed leverage “coaching” as a key development tool for your employees and peers. Bravo to you.
We know that traditional “leadership training” is important, but that alone does not create the transformation that the organization needs. However, we do know that coaching does give us the return that we are looking for in leadership development. The Center for Creative Leadership and the Marshall Goldsmith organization have done extensive studies regarding this fact. The new work world requires the guidance from experience coaches who are focused on the organization’s business strategy.
You can indeed leverage “coaching” as a key development tool for your employees and peers. Bravo to you.
For additional support regarding this topic, please listen to our podcast on Leadership is the Conversation: (Part 5) How Does My Company Benefit from Coaching?
Disclaimer: The information contained on this site is provided for informational purposes only and should not be construed as legal advice on any subject matter. Due to the nature of this segment, any suggestions for consideration can only be general in nature and as such no liability is taken or implied by these suggestions for consideration given here or the use or misuse of any techniques described. It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice.
Q: Enhancing manager/employee relationships is foremost on my mind. What are some ideas on keeping my company competitive and enhancing my relationship with my employees as we move into a world after the pandemic?
A: . It is indeed a “new world” after the advent of the pandemic. You are right to think about employee relationships in this post-COVID world. This situation has accentuated several things as we begin to do business again. Foremost in my mind is for companies to remain adaptive in the “new world." We may need to consider hybrid approaches to desired locations for doing our business – at home vs. the office. These considerations should be driven by the business needs and ability to fulfill those from the preferred location.
In addition, we should consider recruitment in this post-pandemic era. Items such as a flexible work location, development, coaching, etc. will be instrumental in convincing new workers to select our company. The more “intangible” items offered to the employee the better.
In addition, we should consider recruitment in this post-pandemic era. Items such as a flexible work location, development, coaching, etc. will be instrumental in convincing new workers to select our company. The more “intangible” items offered to the employee the better.
For additional support regarding this topic, please listen to our podcast on Back to Work: An HR Perspective (Part Three)
Disclaimer: The information contained on this site is provided for informational purposes only and should not be construed as legal advice on any subject matter. Due to the nature of this segment, any suggestions for consideration can only be general in nature and as such no liability is taken or implied by these suggestions for consideration given here or the use or misuse of any techniques described. It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice.
Q: “Now that employees are returning to the office, I have had several complaints regarding inquiries by fellow staff members on their vaccination status. What is the best way of handling this matter?”
A: . Several individuals are quite proud of achieving their vaccination. As a result, they want to share that information with others. Sharing this personal medical information with others is not really the problem. The problem arises when a conversation leads to “inquiring” about other’s status. This is private medical information and is covered legally by HIPAA (Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act). Additionally, it leads to what social scientists are beginning to refer to as “VAX Shaming.” This type of conversation is quite explosive since it is based on taking either a pro or con stance. This is not very conducive to employee or team morale.
The recommendation is to coach people not to engage in this conversation since it involves very sensitive medical information. If employees persist, refer them to the company’s HR professionals for further counsel.
The recommendation is to coach people not to engage in this conversation since it involves very sensitive medical information. If employees persist, refer them to the company’s HR professionals for further counsel.
For additional support regarding this topic, please listen to our podcast on Back to Work: An HR Perspective (Part Two)
Disclaimer: The information contained on this site is provided for informational purposes only and should not be construed as legal advice on any subject matter. Due to the nature of this segment, any suggestions for consideration can only be general in nature and as such no liability is taken or implied by these suggestions for consideration given here or the use or misuse of any techniques described. It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice.
Q: “In the past year, I’ve been forced to manage my staff remotely. How do I keep in touch with them and stay on top of their work without becoming a micro-manager?”
A: In this new era, many of us have the additional challenge of “leading from afar.” When faced with this situation, it is best to go back to the basics of leading by results. Whether a staff member is working remotely or in your office, the focus of your efforts should be on the outcomes and not the process. As a high performer, you will be tempted to micro-manage the process. Outside of the obvious ethical and legal standards, allow your employees the freedom to do their own work and set their own schedules. We often hear from remote workers, “You hired me because of my character and skills, so please trust me to do my job.” We often hear from veteran managers of remote workers that “flexibility is the key.”
For additional support regarding this topic, please listen to our podcasts on Leading Remote Employees
Disclaimer: The information contained on this site is provided for informational purposes only and should not be construed as legal advice on any subject matter. Due to the nature of this segment, any suggestions for consideration can only be general in nature and as such no liability is taken or implied by these suggestions for consideration given here or the use or misuse of any techniques described. It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice.
Q: “We have started the process of bringing our employees back into the office and my department of underwriters is expected to begin spending less time working from home. I have an employee that has challenged the need to be back in the office. Her position is that she can be every bit as effective working from home as she could be in the office. How do I coach this employee to see the bigger picture and help her understand that working from home was a necessity dictated by COVID-19 and is not part of our culture?”
A: I would begin by acknowledging her position. It’s a logical perspective and it’s probably true. But it's only one consideration. Another concern (and the one we hear most from our human resource colleagues) is “opportunity cost.” This is the hard-to-quantify loss of those “coffee bar” collaborations that we instinctively know help us make better decisions. In our gut, we know that working from home is costing us something, but what? how much? and for whom?
People have a psychological need to connect and collaborate. And, I’m not talking about those virtual “How’s it going?” or “Is that a Westie?” I’m talking about the discussions not governed by the clock or calendar. I’m talking about those over-the-wall and feet-on-the-desk conversations. The impromptu discussions that solve something or shed light on something tricky. Your employee may be underestimating her own value as a “go-to-resource” when working alongside her peers and colleagues. You might think about leveraging those perspectives.
My suggestion is to reflect on your own culture and ask, “What is the loss of our impromptu conversations costing us?" (i.e., in terms of decision quality and timeliness, comradery, and financial).
People have a psychological need to connect and collaborate. And, I’m not talking about those virtual “How’s it going?” or “Is that a Westie?” I’m talking about the discussions not governed by the clock or calendar. I’m talking about those over-the-wall and feet-on-the-desk conversations. The impromptu discussions that solve something or shed light on something tricky. Your employee may be underestimating her own value as a “go-to-resource” when working alongside her peers and colleagues. You might think about leveraging those perspectives.
My suggestion is to reflect on your own culture and ask, “What is the loss of our impromptu conversations costing us?" (i.e., in terms of decision quality and timeliness, comradery, and financial).
For additional support regarding this topic, please listen to our podcasts on Leading Remote Employees
Disclaimer: The information contained on this site is provided for informational purposes only and should not be construed as legal advice on any subject matter. Due to the nature of this segment, any suggestions for consideration can only be general in nature and as such no liability is taken or implied by these suggestions for consideration given here or the use or misuse of any techniques described. It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice.
Q: “Now that people are physically back in the office, how do I help them maintain a healthy work-life balance?”
A: Work-life balance is extremely important to leading a happy and productive workforce. Flexibility is the key to this process. Listening and observing is also fundamental. By paying close attention to the challenges that your workers are facing, a manager is more capable in assisting their staff with solutions. It may cause us to be more creative and flexible with our suggestions.
Microsoft recently did a survey on work/life balance. The technology company, which has been surveying its own 150,000 + workforce, says the data shows that managers who take a more active role in helping employees manage work/life balance and prioritize tasks have the more engaged teams.
Microsoft recently did a survey on work/life balance. The technology company, which has been surveying its own 150,000 + workforce, says the data shows that managers who take a more active role in helping employees manage work/life balance and prioritize tasks have the more engaged teams.
For additional support regarding this topic, please listen to our podcasts on Leading Remote Employees
Disclaimer: The information contained on this site is provided for informational purposes only and should not be construed as legal advice on any subject matter. Due to the nature of this segment, any suggestions for consideration can only be general in nature and as such no liability is taken or implied by these suggestions for consideration given here or the use or misuse of any techniques described. It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice.
Q: “Now that my employees are back in the office, I am sensing a bit of resistance. What do you recommend?”
A: As you are dealing with this issue, remember how humans process change. Typically, humans proceed through four levels – Denial, Resistance, Exploration, and Commitment. Depending upon where the employee is with this change, you will need to leverage different skills.
If your employee is in Denial, focus on building trust. Mutual trust and support is fundamental to helping them surface their concerns and begin to acknowledge the change. If the employee is in Resistance, ask them questions and listen to their responses. Identify the specific source of what they are resisting so that you can clearly define the problem(s) to be solved.
If your employee is open to exploring solutions (Exploration), give them direction and offer various workable options. Once in Commitment, offer your support and make sure the environment supports the solutions or options that have been agreed to.
If your employee is in Denial, focus on building trust. Mutual trust and support is fundamental to helping them surface their concerns and begin to acknowledge the change. If the employee is in Resistance, ask them questions and listen to their responses. Identify the specific source of what they are resisting so that you can clearly define the problem(s) to be solved.
If your employee is open to exploring solutions (Exploration), give them direction and offer various workable options. Once in Commitment, offer your support and make sure the environment supports the solutions or options that have been agreed to.
For additional support regarding this topic, please listen to our podcasts on Leading Remote Employees
Disclaimer: The information contained on this site is provided for informational purposes only and should not be construed as legal advice on any subject matter. Due to the nature of this segment, any suggestions for consideration can only be general in nature and as such no liability is taken or implied by these suggestions for consideration given here or the use or misuse of any techniques described. It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice.
Q: “I’m struggling with presenting a solid business reason for having my employees return to the office. Any suggestions? ”
A: Realize that almost every position has both technical and relationship components. With the support of various technologies, employees have demonstrated the ability to fulfill the technical component from practically anywhere.
When presenting a solid argument for physically returning to the office focus primarily on the relationship component (Collaboration, cross-training, advanced communication, etc.) You may want to turn to the company’s vision, value, or culture statements to explore the relationship components. Most companies place a value on establishing collaborative relationships with clients and fellow professionals.
By focusing on both the technical and relationship components of the job, you present a solid case for successful completion of the “entire” job.
When presenting a solid argument for physically returning to the office focus primarily on the relationship component (Collaboration, cross-training, advanced communication, etc.) You may want to turn to the company’s vision, value, or culture statements to explore the relationship components. Most companies place a value on establishing collaborative relationships with clients and fellow professionals.
By focusing on both the technical and relationship components of the job, you present a solid case for successful completion of the “entire” job.
For additional support regarding this topic, please listen to our podcasts on Leading Remote Employees
Disclaimer: The information contained on this site is provided for informational purposes only and should not be construed as legal advice on any subject matter. Due to the nature of this segment, any suggestions for consideration can only be general in nature and as such no liability is taken or implied by these suggestions for consideration given here or the use or misuse of any techniques described. It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice.
Past Publications
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